Independent wedding and family celebrant

Vow & Proud

Fiercely affirming celebrant-led ceremonies for nearlyweds and families. Fun, comfort and joy included as standard.Choosing a celebrant means having celebration that is reflective of who you are, your traditions, your sense of humour. We affirm your lives and love.Location? Anywhere you likeTime? Up to youPeeing it down? We can move!Deadnaming? Over my dead body.Are you ready to delight in your stories and celebrate life milestones, your way? Then read on to meet Becci...Vow and Proud is queer and disabled owned, built for belonging, and based in East Anglia.

Looking for a celebrant?

Meet BEcci Tate

Hi, I'm Becci (they/them). I'd love to hear about your celebration!Working with couples to create ceremonies that reflect them, their lives and their love brings me so much joy.I'm completely independent, which means you can have as much spirituality as you like, and if you want to include a hobby, obsession or in-joke, we can make it happen.Charity comms person by day, theatre lover by night, I create unique, personal ceremonies that combine thoughtfulness, creativity and fun. I want to work with and for other queer disabled folks, and for fellow nerds and dreamers.I trained with the Fellowship of Professional Celebrants in 2026.

Services

Imagine your perfect ceremony

Can you imagine it? Then we can make a bespoke ceremony for it ✨️
That said, here's a list of the more common ceremonies folks have!

  • Weddings: big ceremonies, mini-weddings, elopements, commitment ceremonies, civil partnerships and vow renewals.

  • Naming days: an introduction to your community for babies and children.

  • Renaming days: For folks wanting to celebrate a new chapter and reintroduce themselves to their loved ones.

How does it work?

The process

Here's the steps to check me out, have a chat and book me as your celebrant.1. Reach out so we can get a chat booked in.
2. We have a 30 min, 0 obligation chat about your love, your life and your wedding day.
3. If I'm what you're looking for, you can go ahead and book me.
4. You'll secure the date, and we can start crafting a ceremony that reflects you, absolutely (and gives you all the feels).
5. On the day, I'll be there early, ready to walk you and your guests through this life-changing moment. You have my undivided attention and support - I don’t rush off to another celebration.
For weddings, you just have to make it legal at a register office in a 15 min ceremony, if you want to.

Excited to get started?

Let's chat about your celebration

There are so many ways to get in contact email, DM, message in a bottle (results may vary)!